Face it, at our age we are hard to shop for. My wife has been asking me the question "what do you want for Christmas" for about week now.
instead fo shrugging and saying I don't know I've decided to go with something really nice that I might not otherwise buy for myself. I'll like and it will relieve a little bit of her stress knowing she is getting me something I really like.
If your in the same boat I'd like to recommend the following:
I would recommend the Tutoro. Out of the box it fits in a stocking. Or, if your loved one is especially demanding, wrap each part of the kit individually, so one gift becomes many.
More seriously: this oiler is the cat's meow! Love mine, but I had to buy it for myself.